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Wednesday, July 20, 2011

ALIENATION IN FOSTER CARE

WED JULY 20 2011
Alienation in the foster care system in Oklahoma is a big problem and needs to be addressed.
Since my grandchildren has been in the Oklahoma Foster Care System, they have been aleinated from the family. They have not been given the opportunity to stay in touch with their love-ones. No phone calls or visits what so ever. From day one there hasn't been no regular visits with me and my grandsons.
My grandchildren has been in the system since March 2 2006.
For the past 5 years and 4 months they have been shuffled, shafted around from one placement to the other, without contact from me, their biological and maternal grandmother. The children's mother she was manipulated into relinquishing her parental rights, by the state letting her to believe that by her doing so, they would give the children to me. That took place on 9/15/09. It was a lie.
My grandchildren, they still remain in the Oklahoma Foster Care System, being moved from one foster care placement to the other.
Children shouldn't be alienated from their family and love ones. It's enough that the children are taken in the first place. Let alone be isolated and alienated from their family.
Stop the Alienation of children in the Oklahoma Foster Care Agency/Organization. It is only hurting the children even more from this segregation from their love ones.
Please Pray for me and my grandchildren as we are going through a difficult time in our lives.
Thank You and God Bless You and Yours.

Monday, July 18, 2011

Children Alienation

Monday July 18 2011
Oklahoma Dhs has kept my grandchildren alienated from me because I've let the world and everyone else know what's going on with the wrong doing in the state of Oklahoma.
Tara Bone is the main person along with the others involved with my grand children's being in custody.
Judge Richard W Kirby, Asst DA Jane Brown and Asst PD Ryan Hauser have all been bias against me. It's an injustice that has taken place and it's not right.
It's not in the best interest of the children. My grandsons have been moved around in the foster care system for the past 5 years and 4 months. The worst thing ever is that my grandchildren haven't been allowed to have any contact with me.
Children should have continuing contact with their family and love ones.
The State Foster Care System are representing it self to be helping the children and families when in fact it's far from that.
Children shouldn't have to suffer while being taken from their home as it is. That is enough pain already. Let alone be kept away from their grandmother. The state has maliciously, deviously and intentionally kept my grand babies from me.
How could this be OK? It's definitely not in the best interest of the children.
I'm the children's biological and maternal grandmother. Their mother she was manipulated into giving up her parental rights. That took place on 9/15/2009. That's emotional damage from the start. My grandchildren deserve to be in contact with family and not be housed in the states foster care system being shuffled like game pieces.
My grandchildren are loved, wanted and missed they have family and love ones that are concerned about them and doesn't want them in the system. They have a home to come to. It's not need for all of this to be going on.
I have been put through tremendous hell on earth with the corrupt and vial acts, prejudice and evil acts that the persons named: Judge Kirby, DHS Tara Bone, Asst DA Jane Brown, and Asst Ryan Hauser, by what they have put me through and my family through.
But more than that! It's about them not doing their job and releasing my grandchildren to me. My grandchildren should have been home instead it's now over 5 years.
There is prejudice against me, and I say that from the experience I've been subjected to.
My reasons are listed as:
I've brought to the attention to all of my guardianship.
I've submitted an adoption petition.
I've completed foster care classes. Certificate for validation.
DHS Tara Bone/Asst DA requested that I never be granted permanent placement of my grandchildren.
DHS contacted Oklahoma Bare foundation and told them not to certify me through there organization.
Oklahoma DHS refused to do a home study evaluation of my home.
Judge Richard Kirby refused to order DHs to do a home study of my home.
Judge Richard Kirby kicked me out of his courtroom from further hearings.
Why wouldn't these folks not give me my grandchildren when I've shown them that How much i love my grandchildren and that I've relocated from out west.
I've a nice home in a nice neighborhood.
A 3 bedroom, 2 bath, 2 car garage
It's over 2,000 square feet.
I'm a Veteran, A registered voter, and I'm not a felon.
My grandchildren has suffered so much by the hands of these awful persons that holds these positions. It's not professional. Their values isn't of the highest and they lack the ability to ease the pain of the children in the states custody.
Children in the system, my grandchildren in the system has been alienated and it's an injustice. Children shouldn't be alienated from their love ones. Especially being that I am right here in the state of Oklahoma with them.
All of these individuals in their positions that they hold should be held accountable for their actions. It's about the children and not how they (the people over the case) can treat people like they have me. I am just a loving and caring grandmother that loves and wants her grandchildren out of the foster care system.
They should be reprimanded for their behavior and actions:
Judge Richard Kirby,
DHS Tara Bone,
Asst DA Jane Brown,
Asst PD Ryan Hauser.
Children need to be with family. I am their family. I am their biological and maternal grandmother.
Yet! Here in the State of Oklahoma, City of Oklahoma City, County of Oklahoma, The persons mentioned above have caused tremendous pain and suffering to our family, my precious grandchildren are the ones that have done the most enduring of pain and suffering by being away in the foster care system with no contact with us at all.
As long as children has a place to come to and not have to remain in the system no more than they have to is the key and reason for the State to give the children back. Yet! that is not the case with my grandsons that's under those persons mentioned above
This is ridiculous and absurd. This is an injustice. Surely and certainly not in the best interest of my grandchildren. This is unprofessional and unethical practice.
Too! believe that these persons go to church and serve GOD, what God don't know, but it can't be the almighty God that's looking down on the whole earth and the seas.
My grandchildren has been in the Oklahoma foster care system since March 2 2006 and has been alienated from me, their grandmother, that wants to see them and talk to them. I want to be included in their lives.
Grandparents are important and vital to their grandchildren growing up. Being in their lives are crucial. It's beneficial and rewarding.
My grandsons are now ages 14, 12, 11, 10, and 7 years of age.
They have been in the system since 2006 of March.
Case # JD-06-180
May, Davis, Benjamin and Walker Case
Mother- Jamira Niccole May- McCoy
Judge Richard W Kirby, he's the 2nd judge on the case
Tara Bone, the initial case worker on the case from the beginning.
Children should be alienated from their family. Yet! that's what all these folks has done to my precious grandsons.
Stop the corruption in the Oklahoma DHS.
Please pray for me and my grandchildren as we are going through pain and suffering as we are separated by the hands of these corrupt officials.
Thank You and God Bless You.

Saturday, July 9, 2011

WHAT JUSTICE?

SAT JULY 9 2011
Associate District Judge Richard W Kirby,
Assistant D A Jane Brown,
Assistant P D Ryan Hauser, and
Tara Bone Oklahoma DHS
All these individuals that I've mentioned are the reasons why my grandchildren remains in the Oklahoma Foster Care System, just going from one placement to another and floating about. They have alienated my grandsons from me. We gets no visitation nor any phone calls. I haven't seen my grandchildren in over a year, since 2/16/2010.
They Kirby, Brown,Hauser and Bone have targeted me and definitely abused their power. Because I use my Freedom of Speech. Those mentioned above has used that against me.
They have taken my grandchildren away from me. They are putting me through pure HELL, I just want my grandsons out of the foster care system. My grandsons don't need to be shuffled around and shafted from place to place. My grandsons have a family and a home to come to. My grandchildren are loved, wanted and missed.
My grandchildren needs me. To not be include in their lives is devastating for all of us.
The way that I've been treated for wanting my grandchildren out of the states foster care system and putting forth effort to see that they get home. The denials and interference. This is an injustice. There hasn't been any justice for me and my grandsons.
WHERE IS THE JUSTICE?
Please pray for me and my grandchildren.
Thank You Very Much and God Bless!

RIGHTS AND RESPONSIBILITY

SAT JULY 9 2011
Oklahoma DHS states that as long as the family has the basic needs met for the family. Meaning the children are being provided for, then the children will be released. Oklahoma Dhs goals are to strengthened the families. Not wreak havoc up on them.
Oklahoma DHS are to help the families and the children! Not keep them in the system for as long as they have like they have done with my grandchilden. I have 5 grandsons that's floating about in the foster care system.
All the Oklahoma DHS TARA BONE, has done was interrupt my placement of my grandchildren with me, the boys maternal and biological grandmother.
The ones that has interfered with my grandchildren return are:
Associate District Judge Richard W Kirby, A.D.A Jane Brown, A.P.D Ryan Hauser, and The Oklahoma DHS Supervisor Tara Bone. They have done me wrong and continue to do vicious and vengeful deeds.
PEOPLE! MY AUDIENCE WHAT'S WRONG HERE? THERE IS A PROBLEM HERE!!!!
As long as the needs of the children are being met and are being provide for then my grandsons shouldn't be in foster care. It's been 5 years and 4 months. I love my grandchildren, and they are not forgotten, they are in my heart, I miss them very much.
I've provided the needs for my grandchildren:
  • Residence
  • Telephone
  • Basics living necessities
  • Working utilities
  • Food and Groceries
  • Deep Freezer full of meat
  • Bed
  • Clothing
  • Clean and Neat residence, Living quarters
  • Adequate space
  • Financial Security, Stable Income
  • Transportation
  • Loving Home
  • Foster Care Classes
  • I'M A RESPONSIBLE ADULT AND LOVING GRANDPARENT

What else is there for one to do in order to get their grandchildren and or love ones out of the foster care system.? I have all that i need to provide for my grandsons, that's been in the states custody since 3/2/2006. I am being the targeted because I am using my Freedom Of Speech and because of that they have denied me my grandchildren: Visitation and Placement of Them! That's wrong! It's an injustice.

For every one that's reading my blog postings. Please Pray for me and my grandchildren, for we are in turmoil dealing with The State of Oklahoma DHS and The Oklahoma Family Court.

Please keep us in your prayers.

Thank You Very Much and God Bless!

TARA BONE DHS SUPERVISOR

SAT JULY 9 2011
Tara Bone has been on my grandchildren's case from the beginning. She has made it appoint to be at every court hearing. 2/8/2011, Tara Bone went on record requesting that i the grandmother never be granted placement of the children.
Tara Bone also went on record requesting that i be excluded from further court proceedings because i wasn't present for court hearing on 2/8/2011. The Judge on the case. Associate District Judge Richard W Kirby he granted the request.
TO NEVER BE GRANTED PLACEMENT FOR MY VERY OWN GRANDCHILDREN.
Please pray for me and my grandchildren. We are being treated terrible in The State of Oklahoma. The Oklahoma family Court and Oklahoma DHS are putting my family through pure hell. My grandchildren continues to suffer without any visitation from family and love-ones.
Thank You and God Bless!

GRANDMOTHER BEING TARGET AGAINST

TARA BONE of Oklahoma DHS, Jane Brown the A.D.A, Ryan Hauser the A.P.D, and the Associate District Judge Richard W Kirby, they all have targeted me and has personal issues and are holding my grandchildren in the Oklahoma Foster Care System when it's no need for it. My grandsons are being shuffled and shafted around from placement to placement. That's not right.
I am here and the folks mention above has deliberately and spitefully are putting this family through HELL! My grandsons are suffering at the hands of all these people.
Tara Bone, Jane Brown, Ryan Hauser, Judge Richard W Kirby, they all has caused considerable amount of emotional stress on this family. All of them are playing apart in this attack on me.
They have already succeeded in my daughter giving up her parental rights and lying to her, that i would get my grandchildren.
5 years 4 months. My grandchildren has a home to come to. I'm no felon and I love my grandchildren.
Please pray for me and my grandchildren. Our family has been attacked by Okdhs.
Thank You and God Bless!

FAMILY

SAT JULY 9 2011

My family has been stripped from me. My oldest and first 5 grandsons. My family stripped from me that's enough for anyone to fight hard to do all that one can and needs to do to get them back home. It's been 5 years and 4 months that the state has been fighting to keep my grandchildren in the system and away from me.

It's about family! Yet these folks continue to halt the release of my grandchildren. I'm the children maternal and biological family member. I just want my grandchildren home and out of the foster care system. It should not be a problem, considering that i have everything needed for my grandchildren to be placed with me.

Family, make sure they take care of their own. When one comes forth to do what's right and in Gods eyes. Family is the foundation and it would be for the Oklahoma DHS to place the children with caring and loving relatives that are willing to take in the children and get them out of the foster care system.

Why 5 years and 4 months. Children shouldn't have to remain in the states custody all this time. It's a disgrace.

Family is the key! So why is this corruption going on here in the State of Oklahoma. Why is it being allowed?

Everyone believes in Family! YET! The State continues to deny me my grandchildren and they remain in the system floating and without any contact with me.

FAMILY! FAMILY! OKLAHOMA determined to EX OUT MY FAMILY, DESTROYING OUR FAMILY. My GRANDCHILDREN HAS BEEN THROUGH ENOUGH.

PLEASE pray for me and my grandchildren as we are having to go through this most difficult time in our lives.

Thank You and God Bless!


TARA BONE OKLAHOMA DHS

SAT JULY 9 2011
EVIL AS THEY COME!
TARA BONE of DHS a now supervisor, and initial case worker from the beginning of the case dating back to March 2 2006. Tara Bone has ask the judge. Judge Richard Kirby to never allow me to have my grandchildren. In other words that i never be granted placement of my grandsons.
This is an act of vengeance and prejudice against me. This is a cruel, cold hearted, and devious act. Because of this my grandchildren are suffering.
Please pray for my grandchildren and keep us in your prayers as the Oklahoma Family Court and Oklahoma DHS do everything to divide our family permanently.

OKLAHOMA DHS

SAT JULY 9 2011
Tara Bone of Oklahoma DHS, has been on my grandchildren case from day one, starting 3/2/2006. Tara Bone has been the catalyst and she has a personal vendetta against me. She has requested that I the children's maternal and biological grandmother never be considered placement for my grandsons.
Tara Bone, she was the initial case worker back in 2006. Since then she's moved up to supervisor. She's done everything she can to keep me from my grandchildren.
Oklahoma DHS is a mad house and needs to be cleaned up!
So many children has suffered more damage than a little bit by the hands of DHS.
Please keep me and my grandchildren in your prayers. We are going through a difficult time in our lives.
Thank You and God Bless!

JUSTICE IS FAR FROM JUST!

Sat July 9 2011
Associate District Judge Richard W Kirby, a person that has a high paying position, which he took an oath to provide justice for those that go before him. Has failed my grandchildren and this family.
Because of Judge Richard W Kirby, my 5 grandsons remain in the Oklahoma Foster Care System. They are being shuffled and shafted around going from one placement to another, and this Judge thinks that's OK, and in the best interest of my grandchildren.
Not only that! He's kept my grandsons away from me. I haven't seen my grandsons since over a year. Since 2-16-2010. I haven't heard their little voices, or been able to hug them.
Where is the justice here? It's wrong and the judge seems to think that he's in perfect right to continue as he has done and doing.
Judge Richard W Kirby, he has not provide any justice, for this family. My grandchildren are suffering due to his actions.
I'm a concerned grandmother, and has been mistreated, I am putting this out there for the world to know what's going on here in the Oklahoma Family Court where Judge Kirby in on the bench.
Please pray for me and my grandchildren, while we are going through a most difficult in our lives.
Thank You and God Bless!

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

"1ST AND FOREMOST"

TUESDAY JULY 5 2011
JUDGE RICHARD W KIRBY,
Before he be came a judge, he is man. Because of his actions, it most definitely shows that noone is above ILL feelings. Judge Kirby, he is very much a man of action, he has kicked me out of the court room where I have been going before him, to get my grandsons out of the system.
This judge he has denied everything that I've presented to him via representation of course. My grandchildren has suffered because of this.
It shows that, the children that are in the states custody, it's not about them! I have been fighting for my grandsons and the system has only delayed the process, for my grandchildren to be released.
My daughter she has relinquished her parental rights because the Judge denied her request to come home to me, so that I could help her with her children. Judge Kirby denied that all together. It has been over whelming and my daughter she gave up and left my grandsons in the system. She had 6 FELONIES! This young lady, she really needed help.
Judge Richard W Kirby, he has failed the my grandchildren. My grandchildren are suffering in the foster care system and because of that they are a float in the system. Not only that, the Judge he refuses to let my grandchildren have anything to do with me.
I continue to write my grandchildren. I love my grandsons very much.
This is the worst thing ever for one having to endure.
Foster Care isn't no place for children! How can the court continue to allow the children to suffer in the foster care system when there is placement for the children with their biological family. I'm their grandmother.
Before I actually moved to Oklahoma, I was receiving static from the Oklahoma DHS, from the then worker Tara Bone, which, by the way she is now the Supervisor of the case.
Everyone involved with my grandsons case has ILL FEELINGS in regards to me fighting for my grandchildren to getting them released from the system.
The Judge hasn't done the job that he took an OATH to do.
Please pray for me and my precious grandchildren.
I haven't seen my grandsons in over a year. For the past 5 years and 4 months my grandsons has been in the Oklahoma Foster Care System and Alienated from me their biological and maternal grandmother, with no phone calls.
THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS

"ISSUES OF CONCERNED"

TUESDAY JULY 5 2011
"ISSUES OF CONCERNED"
MARCH 2 2006:
My grandchildren has been in foster care for quite sometime now. It's an life altering unforeseen tragic event. It's a horrible thing that a family has to go through. No one can imagine what a family has to deal with in a situation such as this, that i am having to face.
I have been doing what any grandmother would do to get her precious grandsons out of the foster care system. With all the efforts that I've put forth and done to achieve that challenge. To no avail because of the Oklahoma Family Courts and Oklahoma DHS, it's only been a living night mare. They have fought me every step of the way. Denying me my grandchildren. Not even regular visitation. I haven't seen my grand-babies in over a year now. The last time I had a visit with my grandchildren were on Feb- 16 2010. That was it!
The issues of concerned that I'm having to raise question about are:
  1. The Judge dismissing me from the court hearings, when I'm there to get my grand babies out of the foster care system.
  2. The reason for dismissing me? It states because of my past actions? Because i voice my opinion and exercise my freedom of speech.
  3. Also states that I was dismissed because I wasn't present on the court date of 2/8/2011, which i wasn't notified of the change.
  4. Judge denied me access to court documents back in 2009 of December.
  5. Court date changed and I wasn't notified of the one day move up from 2/9/2011.
  6. Judge denied petition for Adoption so I could Adopt my grandchildren.
  7. Judge denied request to order DHS do a HOME STUDY of my home for placement of my grandchildren.
  8. DHS called THE BAIR FOUNDATION, to notify them not to certify me for licensing, stating to them that they wouldn't be able to place with me.
  9. Judge denied visitation with my grandchildren.
  10. Judge denied guardianship.
  11. Judge denied haebus corpus.
  12. Judge denied the mother of the children, her request to return home to her mother, which is myself, Farina Thompson, to help her with her children, that would benefit the children and they would get out of the foster care system.
  13. Judge denied the mother's request, The mother she relinquished her parental rights on 9/15/2009
  14. Family Reunification-- DHS hasn't tried to reunify my grandsons with me.
  15. Reasonable Effort-- It hasn't been made by DHS.
  16. Family Values-- Seems to me that DHS isn't concerned with that.
  17. Grandparents Rights-- DHS has revealed that Oklahoma has no Grandparents Rights.
  18. Family Contact--There hasn't been no bonding between my grandchildren and my self, because DHS has denied and refused me the ability to do that.
  19. My grandchildren has been alienated from the family and not able to make phone calls to their biological family.
  20. Policy and procedures--According to the DHS policy and procedures when it comes to placement of the grandchildren with me their grandmother I am with in guidelines. However DHS refuses to release my grandchildren.
  21. I'm a United States Veteran.
  22. I'm a Registered Voter.
  23. I've a Decent Income.
  24. I've a Residence, a home.
  25. 3-2-2 square footage 2,000+
  26. Education - I've Certificates and Diplomas of Education.
  27. Certificates of completion for the FOSTER PRIDE ADOPT.
  28. I'm not a felon.
  29. I've adequate Transportation.
  30. I'm responsible and reliable.
  31. I'm able, willing and capable.
  32. Judge refuses to let me have any contact with my grandchildren, nor will he let my grandsons contact me.
  33. I am the grandchildren maternal and biological grandmother.
  34. Grandchildren has been alienated from me from the very beginning.
  35. It's about the children and getting them reunited with their family immediately. Not having them suffer in the foster care system, when it isn't caused for.
    What the Court System and DHS has done to me and my grandsons are just pure evil and an injustice has occurred.
    My grandchildren are suffering because of the court system has failed us. DHS HAS LIED.
    Thank You for taking the time to read my post.
    I'm asking everyone to please pray for me and my grandchildren.
    Thank You and God Bless.

Saturday, July 2, 2011

FAMILY VALUES, STRENGTH AND FOUNDATION

SAT JULY 2 2011

Hi my name is Farina Thompson, I'm a grandmother that's grieving and missing my grandchildren that's in Oklahoma Foster Care.

I'm posting today on the key essentials to families and children, that they need the connection of family so they can bond.

My grandchildren they have been in foster care since March 2 2006. We haven't had regular visits since my grandsons were taken. I haven't seen them since 2-16-2010. I am going through it. I can only imagine what my grand babies are feeling. This is wrong.

The Oklahoma Family Court-- Judge Richard W Kirby hasn't let me see my grandsons. The DHS initial case worker from the beginning by the name of Tara Bone, she is the one that has directed the case primarily.

Family strengthening is the key to building strong families. Not taking peoples children and refusing to work with them. The children mother she needed help and yet the family court-- Judge Kirby denied her request to return home where she could receive that help.

My daughter she relinquished her parental rights on 9-15-2009. DHS since, has kept my grandchildren away from me with no visitation or phone calls. It's been terrible not to hear my grandchildren voice or to be able to hug them.

Family bonding and being included in the children lives are very important. Even more, It's essential for the children to be in touch with their grandparent(s).

Please pray for me and my grandchildren.

Thank you for taking the time to read my posting.

God Bless